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  • Fellas, stay far away from these low vibrational women.  They will literally suck the life out of you.  Stay on your purpose in life!💯
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  • Fellas, stay far away from these low vibrational women. They will literally suck the life out of you. Stay on your purpose in life!💯
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    #howtobealpha
    #alphamindset
    #attraction 
    #women
    #mentraits 
    #youcandoit 
    #betamale
    #beyourbestyou 
    #youhavethepower 
    #abundancemindset 
    #attractive 
    #vibratehigher 
    #personalgrowth 
    #talktoher 
    #takethefirststep 
    #datingtips 
    #datinggoals
    #datingadvice 
    #datingadviceformen 
    #dating101 
    #alphamale 
    #alphatraits 
    #datingcoach 
    #datingexpert  
    #theattractiveman

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  • Talking to women should be natural behavior for every man. But it is not true in the real world for most men. Losing hurts more than not winning. 

That is what stops most people from moving out of their comfort zone. But all the good things are on the other side. And you won’t know this unless you go out and open yourself up to the opportunities the world offers. The downside of doing things in life you are not comfortable with is very low while the upside can be very high. And you might have heard from testimonies of elderly people who say that the biggest thing they regretted in life were the things they didn’t dare to experience. Time is the scarcest resource for each of us. Hence, start before it is too late! Ultimately, you are investing in your future.
  • Talking to women should be natural behavior for every man. But it is not true in the real world for most men. Losing hurts more than not winning. 

    That is what stops most people from moving out of their comfort zone. But all the good things are on the other side. And you won’t know this unless you go out and open yourself up to the opportunities the world offers. The downside of doing things in life you are not comfortable with is very low while the upside can be very high. And you might have heard from testimonies of elderly people who say that the biggest thing they regretted in life were the things they didn’t dare to experience. Time is the scarcest resource for each of us. Hence, start before it is too late! Ultimately, you are investing in your future.

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  • Hola!! 💫 hoy te traemos esta receta de  agua saborizada  para estos días de tanto calor 🌞...
Solo necesitas : 
•Fresas 
•Arándanos 
•Agua 
•Hielo 
•Albahaca o hierbabuena
Y listo disfrútala ⭐️
Una forma diferente de disfrutar el agua agregándole las frutas que más te gusten ..anímate a hacerla !!! Cuéntanos con qué otros ingredientes harías tu agua saborizada ??
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  • Hola!! 💫 hoy te traemos esta receta de agua saborizada para estos días de tanto calor 🌞...
    Solo necesitas :
    •Fresas
    •Arándanos
    •Agua
    •Hielo
    •Albahaca o hierbabuena
    Y listo disfrútala ⭐️
    Una forma diferente de disfrutar el agua agregándole las frutas que más te gusten ..anímate a hacerla !!! Cuéntanos con qué otros ingredientes harías tu agua saborizada ??






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  • Drop a ❤️ in the comments if you feel this on a soul level.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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  •  16  1  45 minutes ago
  • Would you let a personality test (for example, Myers-Briggs or “Love Language” tests) help pick your dates, because it’s a “thing” among some in the dating world.
  • Would you let a personality test (for example, Myers-Briggs or “Love Language” tests) help pick your dates, because it’s a “thing” among some in the dating world.

  •  2  1  1 hour ago
  • Whether you're dating/talking stage/in a relationship, this is has to be done! Keep the spark going! 👏👏👏 Follow @21stcenturydates for more dating memes!
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  • Whether you're dating/talking stage/in a relationship, this is has to be done! Keep the spark going! 👏👏👏 Follow @21stcenturydates for more dating memes!
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  •  21  1  1 hour ago
  • In today’s video, I’ll share with you key life lessons that I learned from countless interactions with very attractive women both personally as I work on myself, and soon after when I started helping guys get massive results in their own dating lives.
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These are personal epiphanies and realizations that allowed me to improve, not only my success with women. But more importantly the other crucial areas of my life like health and business along with my social life. I attribute most of my success in these areas to the skills I learned approaching women. 
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In our latest video, I’ll share with you the very important lessons I learned from years of approaching, attracting, and seducing beautiful women in the hopes that these lessons can change your life for the better the way they did to mine.
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Watch the FULL Video on Our Youtube Channel (link in the bio)

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  • In today’s video, I’ll share with you key life lessons that I learned from countless interactions with very attractive women both personally as I work on myself, and soon after when I started helping guys get massive results in their own dating lives.
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    These are personal epiphanies and realizations that allowed me to improve, not only my success with women. But more importantly the other crucial areas of my life like health and business along with my social life. I attribute most of my success in these areas to the skills I learned approaching women.
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    In our latest video, I’ll share with you the very important lessons I learned from years of approaching, attracting, and seducing beautiful women in the hopes that these lessons can change your life for the better the way they did to mine.
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    Watch the FULL Video on Our Youtube Channel (link in the bio)

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  •  7  1  2 hours ago
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Snippets from Amanda Episode 7!!!

Click on the link on bio to read it!  If you missed other episodes, click on the link too. Previous episodes links are available!
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    Snippets from Amanda Episode 7!!!

    Click on the link on bio to read it! If you missed other episodes, click on the link too. Previous episodes links are available!
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  •  6  1  2 hours ago
  • 🚩RED FLAG ALERT!! 🚩I dont know who needs to hear this, but this is true in both directions of this statement. What do I mean? We often think that this is only true when he says one thing but does another for example saying he cares about you, but his actions don't show it. But, let's reverse the scenario a bit here. If he "shows you he cares" by doing all these wonderful things for you with his actions, basically treating you like his woman, yet he never claims you with his words as his woman, honey that's a whole  red flag too! That is what we call a situationship. 

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  • 🚩RED FLAG ALERT!! 🚩I dont know who needs to hear this, but this is true in both directions of this statement. What do I mean? We often think that this is only true when he says one thing but does another for example saying he cares about you, but his actions don't show it. But, let's reverse the scenario a bit here. If he "shows you he cares" by doing all these wonderful things for you with his actions, basically treating you like his woman, yet he never claims you with his words as his woman, honey that's a whole red flag too! That is what we call a situationship.

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  •  5  0  3 hours ago
  • Fancy a quiet, cosy evening with your date over a few drinks? I recommend visiting the @theredcowpub in Leicestershire. It's outside of the local lockdown area and is a beautiful, quant little pub just off one of the main roads in and out of Leicester. It has a really nice decor and lovely big wood burning fire places with a restaurant area and a bar area to choose from. It's a great spot for a comfortable and relaxing date 4/5. 
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  • Fancy a quiet, cosy evening with your date over a few drinks? I recommend visiting the @theredcowpub in Leicestershire. It's outside of the local lockdown area and is a beautiful, quant little pub just off one of the main roads in and out of Leicester. It has a really nice decor and lovely big wood burning fire places with a restaurant area and a bar area to choose from. It's a great spot for a comfortable and relaxing date 4/5.
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  •  1  0  3 hours ago
  • Blessed... 🔑🏠

Life is (no lie)a real journey. Through our 12 years of marriage, We’ve experienced many ups and downs. From foreclosures, to 2 bedroom Apt’s. (With 5 kids), multiple relocations, layoffs, an eviction, and the list goes on. 
In this year alone there’s been a pandemic, racial tension, loss of family members/loved ones, quarantine, a failing job market, and economical shut downs.

BUT... Through it all, _God has remained faithful to us. and He continues to provide. We love how God can use any situation and, we mean, any situation for good. And we are so thankful!!

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  • Blessed... 🔑🏠

    Life is (no lie)a real journey. Through our 12 years of marriage, We’ve experienced many ups and downs. From foreclosures, to 2 bedroom Apt’s. (With 5 kids), multiple relocations, layoffs, an eviction, and the list goes on.
    In this year alone there’s been a pandemic, racial tension, loss of family members/loved ones, quarantine, a failing job market, and economical shut downs.

    BUT... Through it all, _God has remained faithful to us. and He continues to provide. We love how God can use any situation and, we mean, any situation for good. And we are so thankful!!

    Connect on IG, Facebook, YouTube, and TikTok

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  •  13  1  3 hours ago
  • Hi beautiful souls! There are a ton of new faces here, so I’d like to re-introduce myself. I am Kristen, and this is my soulmate, Steve 😍 I am a relationship coach and it is my passion and true calling to help women find their soulmate. Your soulmate DOES exist, and everyone deserves to discover this kind of passion and love in their lifetime! I love to let my personality and personal life shine through on this page, so here are some random fun facts about me: 
✨ I was a dancer for over 18 years at a semi-professional level 💃🏻
✨ Prior to being a relationship coach, I was a personal trainer! 💪🏻
✨ Halloween is my favorite day of the entire year! I decorate 2 months in advance and usually have like, 7 different costumes planned 👻
✨ I love all animals, especially those deemed unusual, ugly, or weird. I have a hairless Guinea pig (“skinny pig” as they are called) named Cappy and I am obsessed with him! 💙
✨ I love to travel! I have an amazing travel bucket list planned (after corona, of course) 🌎
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#relationshipadviceforwomen
#loveandrelationship
#relationshipsmatter
#toxicrelationships
#singlescoaching 
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#truelove 
#soulmate
#alignment 
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#honesty
#choosehappiness
#mindsetcoaching
#mindsetshift 
#mindfulness
#happygirlsaretheprettiest
#positivepsychology
  • Hi beautiful souls! There are a ton of new faces here, so I’d like to re-introduce myself. I am Kristen, and this is my soulmate, Steve 😍 I am a relationship coach and it is my passion and true calling to help women find their soulmate. Your soulmate DOES exist, and everyone deserves to discover this kind of passion and love in their lifetime! I love to let my personality and personal life shine through on this page, so here are some random fun facts about me:
    ✨ I was a dancer for over 18 years at a semi-professional level 💃🏻
    ✨ Prior to being a relationship coach, I was a personal trainer! 💪🏻
    ✨ Halloween is my favorite day of the entire year! I decorate 2 months in advance and usually have like, 7 different costumes planned 👻
    ✨ I love all animals, especially those deemed unusual, ugly, or weird. I have a hairless Guinea pig (“skinny pig” as they are called) named Cappy and I am obsessed with him! 💙
    ✨ I love to travel! I have an amazing travel bucket list planned (after corona, of course) 🌎


    I’d love to get to know you guys! What’s a random fun fact about you? Tell me in the comments below! ❤️




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    #relationshiptips
    #relationshipexpert
    #relationshipcoach
    #datingcoach
    #lovecoach
    #relationshiptalk
    #relationshipstruggles
    #datinglife
    #datingtips
    #relationshiprules
    #datinggoals
    #relationshipadviceforwomen
    #loveandrelationship
    #relationshipsmatter
    #toxicrelationships
    #singlescoaching
    #datingadvice
    #truelove
    #soulmate
    #alignment
    #soulalignment
    #honesty
    #choosehappiness
    #mindsetcoaching
    #mindsetshift
    #mindfulness
    #happygirlsaretheprettiest
    #positivepsychology

  •  39  6  4 hours ago
  • This may be hard to believe for you but...⁣
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You deserve to be loved, valued, seen, heard and most of all you’re worth being treated with consideration decency and ⁣respect.⁣
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Dating can feel incredibly exhausting and draining. ⁣
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Believe in yourself. If you don’t, no one will 💋❤️⁣
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By the way if you haven’t joined my FREE Facebook group yet just click the link in my bio. I’ll see you there!
  • This may be hard to believe for you but...⁣

    You are lovable. You are unique. ⁣

    You deserve to be loved, valued, seen, heard and most of all you’re worth being treated with consideration decency and ⁣respect.⁣

    I know what it’s like to hit that wall and to only attract men who didn’t meet my standards. ⁣

    I know the feeling of feeling lonely, not good enough and unwanted, questioning myself and whether my standards are too high.⁣

    Dating can feel incredibly exhausting and draining. ⁣

    But lowering your standards, being inauthentic and trying to mould into the woman who you believe he wants you to be will not get you the relationship you deserve and desire. ⁣

    There are great men out there who are looking for a woman just like you. Men who will adore you because you have standards and because you don’t chase after them.⁣

    That’s the type of men you want. ⁣

    Believe in yourself. If you don’t, no one will 💋❤️⁣

    By the way if you haven’t joined my FREE Facebook group yet just click the link in my bio. I’ll see you there!

  •  58  11  4 hours ago
  • 4 TIPS TO HELP YOU AVOID TIME-WASTERS WHEN YOU’RE DATING:

 1.DATE WITH PURPOSE. When you’re dating, it’s important to DATE WITH PURPOSE and with your future in mind, which means HAVE A PLAN & GOAL in place and disqualify the men who don’t fit in your future plans and only entertain men who do fit in your future plans. 

2. DONT IGNORE RED FLAGS.Learn how to properly vet men and if a red flag show up, don’t ignore it. Ignoring red flags is a BIG mistake and can result to you ending up emotionally attached to the wrong man and wasting your youth, energy and precious time.

3. PAY ATTENTION TO A MAN’S ACTIONS. Words are CHEAP but actions will tell you EVERYTHING you need to know ladies! So if the man you’re dating doesn’t keep his word, or if his words don’t match with his actions, then it’s your responsibility to stop entertaining him so you don’t waste your time with a man who’s just telling you what you want to hear, stringing you along, giving you false hope and selling you false dreams.

4. NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS.Keep your standards high and don’t lower them for any man. Remember, the men who get put off by your standards are men who are NOT right for you because the men who generally like you, can meet your requirements and want to be in your life will come through and meet your standards with no hesitation and those are the men who deserve your time and attention. 

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SAVE this post so you can refer back to it any time & FOLLOW for more Dating & Relationship Advice.

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If you need help along your LEVEL UP JOURNEY and/or you want tailored DATING & RELATIONSHIP advice, DM me for 1:1 COACHING.
  • 4 TIPS TO HELP YOU AVOID TIME-WASTERS WHEN YOU’RE DATING:

    1.DATE WITH PURPOSE. When you’re dating, it’s important to DATE WITH PURPOSE and with your future in mind, which means HAVE A PLAN & GOAL in place and disqualify the men who don’t fit in your future plans and only entertain men who do fit in your future plans.

    2. DONT IGNORE RED FLAGS.Learn how to properly vet men and if a red flag show up, don’t ignore it. Ignoring red flags is a BIG mistake and can result to you ending up emotionally attached to the wrong man and wasting your youth, energy and precious time.

    3. PAY ATTENTION TO A MAN’S ACTIONS. Words are CHEAP but actions will tell you EVERYTHING you need to know ladies! So if the man you’re dating doesn’t keep his word, or if his words don’t match with his actions, then it’s your responsibility to stop entertaining him so you don’t waste your time with a man who’s just telling you what you want to hear, stringing you along, giving you false hope and selling you false dreams.

    4. NEVER LOWER YOUR STANDARDS.Keep your standards high and don’t lower them for any man. Remember, the men who get put off by your standards are men who are NOT right for you because the men who generally like you, can meet your requirements and want to be in your life will come through and meet your standards with no hesitation and those are the men who deserve your time and attention.

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    SAVE this post so you can refer back to it any time & FOLLOW for more Dating & Relationship Advice.

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    If you need help along your LEVEL UP JOURNEY and/or you want tailored DATING & RELATIONSHIP advice, DM me for 1:1 COACHING.

  •  475  25  4 hours ago
  • Texting is for arranging logistics, not for building a connection, trying to make her fall in love with you or any other weak-ass bullshit. It's literally a tool to get you to meet in person. If she's not down to meet, then move on till you find another who is. I guarantee you; if you build a virtual relationship, that relationship will turn out to be a fantasy that never comes true AKA you'll feel tortured by it. Then if you actually meet in person, it'll be far more awkward and strange and far more likely to not go where you want it to go. Instead, just set it up and make it happen. In-person is where it's at.


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  • Texting is for arranging logistics, not for building a connection, trying to make her fall in love with you or any other weak-ass bullshit. It's literally a tool to get you to meet in person. If she's not down to meet, then move on till you find another who is. I guarantee you; if you build a virtual relationship, that relationship will turn out to be a fantasy that never comes true AKA you'll feel tortured by it. Then if you actually meet in person, it'll be far more awkward and strange and far more likely to not go where you want it to go. Instead, just set it up and make it happen. In-person is where it's at.

    Follow @AlphaActivation for more content like this. Also, I want to give you something... Check out my free ebook; 'Signals.' In Signals, you're getting the three simple behaviour habits that rewire your brain to automatically have a Dominant (Alpha) Mindset... I've crammed them all into a short, direct and easy to implement ebook. The best part is it's free. Get Signals today – click the link in my bio to join hundreds of Alpha Activation Brothers who're naturally dominating their destiny and enjoying success in their relationships, sex and social lives. Who else wants to live the Alpha Lifestyle? Click the link in my bio to find out more: @alphaactivation

  •  201  14  4 hours ago
  • A lot of us grow up in fucked up relationships, so we come to believe that certain behaviors are normal and acceptable even though they're not. When you grow up in dysfunctional relationships, you don't realize they're dysfunctional until you're out of them and the only way you can get out of them is to stop many of the behaviors that perpetuate the problems. ⠀
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Many of us approach relationships as a kind of game with a scorecard, and we're trying to constantly outscore our partner. I took out the trash so he/she has to do this for me. I pretended to like her mother so now she has to give me what I want. ⠀
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These tit-for-tat relationship battles lead nowhere good. In fact, because our partners never seem to appreciate how high our score is, we resort to manipulative behaviors to get the satisfaction we want. We are passive-aggressive instead of stating that we're hurt. We guilt trip them instead of simply ask them for a favor. We make assumptions about their intentions instead of simply asking them. ⠀
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These things are no good. And they will be the death of your relationship. But it won't be a spectacular death, but rather a grueling, slow-moving death. A relationship death by a thousand paper cuts... or in this case, a thousand manipulations.
  • A lot of us grow up in fucked up relationships, so we come to believe that certain behaviors are normal and acceptable even though they're not. When you grow up in dysfunctional relationships, you don't realize they're dysfunctional until you're out of them and the only way you can get out of them is to stop many of the behaviors that perpetuate the problems. ⠀

    Many of us approach relationships as a kind of game with a scorecard, and we're trying to constantly outscore our partner. I took out the trash so he/she has to do this for me. I pretended to like her mother so now she has to give me what I want. ⠀

    These tit-for-tat relationship battles lead nowhere good. In fact, because our partners never seem to appreciate how high our score is, we resort to manipulative behaviors to get the satisfaction we want. We are passive-aggressive instead of stating that we're hurt. We guilt trip them instead of simply ask them for a favor. We make assumptions about their intentions instead of simply asking them. ⠀

    These things are no good. And they will be the death of your relationship. But it won't be a spectacular death, but rather a grueling, slow-moving death. A relationship death by a thousand paper cuts... or in this case, a thousand manipulations.

  •  6,349  69  4 hours ago
  • Femoiselles head over to msfemoiselle.carrd.co and click on Level Up On A Budget to find out the 5 Classic Must-Have Jewelry Items Every Woman Needs! Do you have any of the five items listed,  already?? Put a diamond 💎 emoji in the comments if you do! If not you should consider thinking about add these items to your jewelry collection. 💅🏽-Ms. Femoiselle
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Top #datinggoals Posts

  • So many of us have been conditioned to be the care taker or the fixer or the problem solver in our relationships.
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As with most approach in life as an adult, there is something to unpack around your childhood dynamic. You worth is not defined by what you can do for another. But we’ll leave that for another time.
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Yes, choose people also interested in a growth mindset. Willing to receive feedback. And look inward and learn.
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That said, you have ZERO control over the person they may or may not be becoming.
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Look at who the person is TODAY.
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That’s the best indicator of more to come.
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Don’t project your ideal or fall in love with the idea of the person and their potential.
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Choose the person who in this moment can make you feel safe, heard and valued with shared vision of the future.
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The other side of this coin is that you need to show up as your authentic self.
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So that you are leading with an honest and transparent version of who you really are and what you really want in love.
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#datingpotential #tuesdaytransformation #datingstrategy #vulnerability #peopleshowwhotheyare
  • So many of us have been conditioned to be the care taker or the fixer or the problem solver in our relationships.
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    As with most approach in life as an adult, there is something to unpack around your childhood dynamic. You worth is not defined by what you can do for another. But we’ll leave that for another time.
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    Yes, choose people also interested in a growth mindset. Willing to receive feedback. And look inward and learn.
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    That said, you have ZERO control over the person they may or may not be becoming.
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    Look at who the person is TODAY.
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    That’s the best indicator of more to come.
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    Don’t project your ideal or fall in love with the idea of the person and their potential.
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    Choose the person who in this moment can make you feel safe, heard and valued with shared vision of the future.
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    The other side of this coin is that you need to show up as your authentic self.
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    So that you are leading with an honest and transparent version of who you really are and what you really want in love.
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    #datingpotential #tuesdaytransformation #datingstrategy #vulnerability #peopleshowwhotheyare

  •  1,965  34  4 August, 2020
  • 16 years together 

16 years we’ve been in love

16 years you still look at me the same 

16 years I still get butterflies 

16 years we were each other’s  one and only 

16 years I still wanted you

16 years I still feel beautiful 

16 years I still love looking at you

16 years you still make me laugh 

16 years of dating (almost 13 of those married)

16 years we have 3 beautiful babies

 
16 years God has truly blessed us

Happy 16th (dating) anniversary baby, I love you.❤️ I couldn’t imagine sharing it with anyone else. 

We were 17 & 18 (Curtis) in 2004. Not too much has changed, but our bodies can tell the difference lol My knees definitely feel it and Curt’s back is achy here and there 😂

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#Godfirst #coordinatedfamily #newdecade #matchymatchy #love #family #thecurlycoopers #couplegoals #relationshipgoals #familygoals #goals #familyliving #viral_qt #quarantine #familytime #anniversary #marriedgoals #datinggoals #theglowup #glowup
  • 16 years together

    16 years we’ve been in love

    16 years you still look at me the same

    16 years I still get butterflies

    16 years we were each other’s one and only

    16 years I still wanted you

    16 years I still feel beautiful

    16 years I still love looking at you

    16 years you still make me laugh

    16 years of dating (almost 13 of those married)

    16 years we have 3 beautiful babies


    16 years God has truly blessed us

    Happy 16th (dating) anniversary baby, I love you.❤️ I couldn’t imagine sharing it with anyone else.

    We were 17 & 18 (Curtis) in 2004. Not too much has changed, but our bodies can tell the difference lol My knees definitely feel it and Curt’s back is achy here and there 😂

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    #Godfirst #coordinatedfamily #newdecade #matchymatchy #love #family #thecurlycoopers #couplegoals #relationshipgoals #familygoals #goals #familyliving #viral_qt #quarantine #familytime #anniversary #marriedgoals #datinggoals #theglowup #glowup

  •  81,570  905  1 July, 2020
  • Show up as your authentic and truest self from day 1.
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Yes, lead with your best self, and also be you. The real you.
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Because someone liking you - all of you - is in part predicated on you showing them who you are. And what matters to you.
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How do you show up?
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Talk about things and people that matter to you.
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Don’t agree just to be agreeable.
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Say “yes” to things that bring you closer to who you are.
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Which means saying “no” to people and things that are not aligned with your values.
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Yes, lead with kindness, generosity and compassion but as the truest expression of yourself.
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Your authenticity is your power. Read previous posts.
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Lean into all that you are while working on becoming your best and highest self.
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Then you’re more likely meet someone who sees and appreciates you for you. And who has #sharedvalues 
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Post inspired by @nedratawwab
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#sundayvibes✨ #authenticity #reallove❤️ #highestself #realself #truestself #wikfssunday
  • Show up as your authentic and truest self from day 1.
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    Yes, lead with your best self, and also be you. The real you.
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    Because someone liking you - all of you - is in part predicated on you showing them who you are. And what matters to you.
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    How do you show up?
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    Talk about things and people that matter to you.
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    Don’t agree just to be agreeable.
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    Say “yes” to things that bring you closer to who you are.
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    Which means saying “no” to people and things that are not aligned with your values.
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    Yes, lead with kindness, generosity and compassion but as the truest expression of yourself.
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    Your authenticity is your power. Read previous posts.
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    Lean into all that you are while working on becoming your best and highest self.
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    Then you’re more likely meet someone who sees and appreciates you for you. And who has #sharedvalues
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    Post inspired by @nedratawwab
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    #sundayvibes#authenticity #reallove❤️ #highestself #realself #truestself #wikfssunday

  •  3,002  51  26 July, 2020
  • Your authentic power = YOU.
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Your uniqueness, experiences and values that come together to make you, you.
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There is no one else like you in this world of billions.
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Celebrate and cultivate you and all that you are. Before the layers of pain, defenses and disappointments colored your perspective.
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Your greatest challenge and also your greatest reward in discovering authentic love is discovering all that you are.
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Don’t give your power away.
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Don’t assign this role to anyone or anything else.
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Do you lead with authentic power?
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The confidence of knowing that you are worthy of love, belonging and real connection.
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#wednesdayfeels #authenticity #yourpower #yourunique #claimyourpower #leanin
  • Your authentic power = YOU.
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    Your uniqueness, experiences and values that come together to make you, you.
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    There is no one else like you in this world of billions.
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    Celebrate and cultivate you and all that you are. Before the layers of pain, defenses and disappointments colored your perspective.
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    Your greatest challenge and also your greatest reward in discovering authentic love is discovering all that you are.
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    Don’t give your power away.
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    Don’t assign this role to anyone or anything else.
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    Do you lead with authentic power?
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    The confidence of knowing that you are worthy of love, belonging and real connection.
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    #wednesdayfeels #authenticity #yourpower #yourunique #claimyourpower #leanin

  •  2,750  72  22 July, 2020
  • Invest in people who are investing their time and efforts back.
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Decide if what they bring to the table is good enough for YOU.
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Ask if they have the willingness AND the capacity to love you the way you need.
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Are you seeing an idealized version of this person whom you have yet to know on a real level?
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Are you choosing to ignore yellow signs because the trade off is companionship?
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Above all, what parts of you do you have to sacrifice to make this work?
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When you choose you first, then you’re more likely to honor what you need and who is and is not right for you.
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Lead with your authentic and powerful self.
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#wednesdaymood #chooseyou #loveyourself #datinggoals #partnershiprules
  • Invest in people who are investing their time and efforts back.
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    Decide if what they bring to the table is good enough for YOU.
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    Ask if they have the willingness AND the capacity to love you the way you need.
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    Are you seeing an idealized version of this person whom you have yet to know on a real level?
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    Are you choosing to ignore yellow signs because the trade off is companionship?
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    Above all, what parts of you do you have to sacrifice to make this work?
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    When you choose you first, then you’re more likely to honor what you need and who is and is not right for you.
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    Lead with your authentic and powerful self.
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    #wednesdaymood #chooseyou #loveyourself #datinggoals #partnershiprules

  •  6,748  120  29 July, 2020
  • How to find your guy in 2020...

For those that have already signed up for the live webclass. I can’t wait to share insights on how you can attract the right guy this year ❤️

The first events are almost booked out! To grab your spot, I’ve put the link in my bio.

I hope you’re having an amazing start to the week. Let’s get it 💪
  • How to find your guy in 2020...

    For those that have already signed up for the live webclass. I can’t wait to share insights on how you can attract the right guy this year ❤️

    The first events are almost booked out! To grab your spot, I’ve put the link in my bio.

    I hope you’re having an amazing start to the week. Let’s get it 💪

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Let’s #healtogether
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    What other dating tips would you add to the list?⁠⠀
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    Let’s #healtogether

  •  7,512  138  7 July, 2020
  • Are you both committed to each other and to your growth as an individual and as a couple?
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Not everyone is interested in doing the real work of healing and taking accountability as adults.
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Because it is freak’n hard.
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To accept parts of ourselves that are ugly.
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To have the willingness AND the tools to implement change.
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And be consistent in our journey toward the highest and truest expression of ourselves.
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Living in denial is much easier.
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Especially if you are a high functioning individual. You can mask and overcompensate for whats lacking within with external things such as your career. Or hobby.
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Find someone  who is interested in cultivating both their external and internal worlds.
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By the way, not coincidentally, when you focus on your inner world, many external elements will fall into place organically.
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How you do one thing is how you do everything.
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#saturdaymotivation #truthbetold💯 #growthroughwhatyougothrough #levelup⬆️ #highestself #commitmenttogrowth #innerworld
  • Are you both committed to each other and to your growth as an individual and as a couple?
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    Not everyone is interested in doing the real work of healing and taking accountability as adults.
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    Because it is freak’n hard.
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    To accept parts of ourselves that are ugly.
    .
    To have the willingness AND the tools to implement change.
    .
    And be consistent in our journey toward the highest and truest expression of ourselves.
    .
    Living in denial is much easier.
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    Especially if you are a high functioning individual. You can mask and overcompensate for whats lacking within with external things such as your career. Or hobby.
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    Find someone who is interested in cultivating both their external and internal worlds.
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    By the way, not coincidentally, when you focus on your inner world, many external elements will fall into place organically.
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    How you do one thing is how you do everything.
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    #saturdaymotivation #truthbetold💯 #growthroughwhatyougothrough #levelup⬆️ #highestself #commitmenttogrowth #innerworld

  •  1,808  36  25 July, 2020
  • There are two perspectives within a relationship and both are usually right.
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Agreeing to disagree can be a dismissive way to shut someone or a conversation down.
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It may sound like you’re extending a gesture of peace, but that’s not always the reality.
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Saying, “we’ll agree to disagree” can be a way of avoiding the real issue or talking about how it really makes you feel.
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And/or another way to shut someone down in contempt (I know I’m right and I can’t get you to see it my way so I’m done talking about it). A form of gaslighting.
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The shift that is helpful in your relationship dynamic is to offer to understand.
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Which means taking the perspective of your partner.
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Validating their feelings whether you agree or not does not matter.
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Everyone’s feelings are their feelings. You can’t discount them.
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The key to relationship success and connection is how well you manage your differences and your emotions.
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Next time, get curious.
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Offer words like, “I can see how you would feel that way....I hear you...what you’re going through sounds hard.... I don’t see it the same way and I want to understand better your perspective. Can you say it in a different way?...”
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Validating your partner is not the same as agreeing with them.
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Read that again.
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Being heard, seen and validated are essential bedrocks of success in any relationship.
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Without these components in place, one or both of you will eventually become frustrated, resentful and disconnected.
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Remember, you CHOSE your partner for a reason. In the beginning, you were curious about their views. Interested in learning everything about them.
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Practice this way of being.
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It takes tremendous self awareness to say, “wanting to be right is my ego”. Instead, “what can I do and say that will preserve our bond?”
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How are you during disagreements?
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Do you fight to win or to learn something important about the other? Disagreements are not only normal but also healthy.
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BUT how you handle yourself in the midst of fights will make or break your relationship long term.
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  • There are two perspectives within a relationship and both are usually right.
    .
    Agreeing to disagree can be a dismissive way to shut someone or a conversation down.
    .
    It may sound like you’re extending a gesture of peace, but that’s not always the reality.
    .
    Saying, “we’ll agree to disagree” can be a way of avoiding the real issue or talking about how it really makes you feel.
    .
    And/or another way to shut someone down in contempt (I know I’m right and I can’t get you to see it my way so I’m done talking about it). A form of gaslighting.
    .
    The shift that is helpful in your relationship dynamic is to offer to understand.
    .
    Which means taking the perspective of your partner.
    .
    Validating their feelings whether you agree or not does not matter.
    .
    Everyone’s feelings are their feelings. You can’t discount them.
    .
    The key to relationship success and connection is how well you manage your differences and your emotions.
    .
    Next time, get curious.
    .
    Offer words like, “I can see how you would feel that way....I hear you...what you’re going through sounds hard.... I don’t see it the same way and I want to understand better your perspective. Can you say it in a different way?...”
    .
    Validating your partner is not the same as agreeing with them.
    .
    Read that again.
    .
    Being heard, seen and validated are essential bedrocks of success in any relationship.
    .
    Without these components in place, one or both of you will eventually become frustrated, resentful and disconnected.
    .
    Remember, you CHOSE your partner for a reason. In the beginning, you were curious about their views. Interested in learning everything about them.
    .
    Practice this way of being.
    .
    It takes tremendous self awareness to say, “wanting to be right is my ego”. Instead, “what can I do and say that will preserve our bond?”
    .
    How are you during disagreements?
    .
    Do you fight to win or to learn something important about the other? Disagreements are not only normal but also healthy.
    .
    BUT how you handle yourself in the midst of fights will make or break your relationship long term.
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  •  1,108  30  1 August, 2020